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anonymous
writes:this might be hard to explain but i need people's opinions and advice. i had been seeing this guy for 5 month and in that time he cheated on me 4 times and had "pictures" of another girl on his phone. but recently we decided to put the past behind us start a fresh and start going out. we have been going a month but hes been treating me very horrible. he was talking about me to his pal about me saying he couldnt be bothered with me and thats why he was not wanting to go to hus pals house. at this point a was sitting right next to his pal and was devastated. then he eventually came down and sat being cheeky to me all night for no reason at all. like we were talking about hands (dont ask) and measuring them and i went to do it to him and instead he stuck the finger up at me. he was contradicting everything i said and kept making nasty comments. i was gutted cos it was the first time he had met my cousin and was making a complete fool of himself. he was also implying i was fat and all this and i was totally crushed. then he shouted at me all night on the phone when i went home and swearing at me and then he finished with me and said if you really like me you'll try your best to get me back. i stayed up all night for 6 hours and was really tired and he sat giving me cheek on msn and i was heartbroken. i dont no whats happening now but i need advice please?xxxxxxxxx
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reader, old-spinstah +, writes (28 September 2009):
Don't try and get this guy back - just totally ignore him an hold your head high. Act like that and it wouldn't surprise me if he comes crawling back to you in a little while wanting to get back together. Don't even consider taking him back though - he only wants someone to bully (which is what he's been doing to you) because it makes him feel big, strong and clever when he's really a pathetic little boy - leave him in the playground with all the other children
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 September 2009):
Seriously ditch this guy. (and i use the term 'guy' loosely, since he really is an ass) There are lots and lots of guys out there who will treat you far better than this. Don't remain friends with him, don't contact him, don't go running. Don't do anything at all. Dump him, keep your self respect and find a real man, not a pathetic loser.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2009): "Jerk" is not nearly a strong enough word. He's awful. Why worry about someone who treats you so badly, cheats, and is so horrible to you? Honestly, you deserve better, no one deserves to be treated like that.
Don't try to get him back, don't even consider it. He doesn't deserve you, I think that's pretty clear, and no guy should treat any girl that way, especially one they say they care about. He's being a complete ass to you. Don't waste your tears on someone like that, find someone who actually cares about you and treats you right and makes you happy, not upset. Feel free to message me if you need to talk or anything, things will work out in the end I'm sure. Good luck with everything.
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