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writes:I went on one date with a girl and it went pretty well. Afterwards she texted me and asked if I wanted another date. I said sure, she said where? I couldn't think of any good ideas so I put off texting her. Then I got distracted and then I forgot. So two days later she texts me back saying I'm an a-hole and that I can forget about another date. I texted her back saying that I didn't have an excuse but I'd still like to see her and she said "Fine. Prove it."Do you think she is being too aggresive here or should I just take her out anyway?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009): You forget about her for two days? Haha wow good job! Everyone else can say she has issues but, i don't know, maybe she LIKED YOU? I mean it looks like you don't rly care about her or you are into dating if you got "distracted" for two days.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2009): She is being irrational, but you were a jerk to just forget to communicate with her. If you are interested, you make an effort. You say that you were, but you are not making your actions match your words so that doesn't make you look very reliable.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 September 2009):
Wow. I'll tell you now this girl has some issues. Sounds like she's been hurt in the past and needs to get over it. Personally, I would leave this one well alone. I get the feeling you've only found the tip of the iceberg as it were. Politely say you don't think this is going to work, then move on. She might start having a go, but let that strenghten your resolve.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (28 September 2009):
Yeah, she's kind of proving that she jumps the gun way too fast. She's obviously emotional and sounds like she's probably drama. I mean honestly, what do you need to prove to her? She waited 2-days and then started verbally attacking you. Tell her to prove she's not a psychotic drama queen and then you'll see about a second date! In all seriousness though, if you don't feel comfortable going out with her again (which I'm guessing you don't since you're asking for advice here) then I would say no. She's immature and full of drama.
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