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*rayton7
writes:I have been crushing over this girl for over 5 years now, but I cant ask her out as she already has a boyfriend(of 3 years). She doesn't know about my feelings for her. What bothers me is that she speaks to me when we are out of school but ignores me in the hallways and since the past 5 months I cant focus on anything else but her. Its like obsessive-compulsive disorder. How do I get her off my mind?
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reader, drayton7 +, writes (14 September 2009):
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Thanks Other Starfish & Xearo.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009): easy way to get over obsessive disorders is cognative therapy... a distraction... go find another woman trust me it will work.....spend time and talk....you are thinking too much....
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2009): Maybe you should open your eyes to other girls. Don't use this girl as an excuse to not see other girls. She has a boyfriend so it would be better to not try anything hasty...although after 5 years I guess that opportunity went out the window. Yes it is obsessive but it is not going anywhere, and the sooner you realize it the sooner you can move on. Also if she ignores you in the hallway, I guess she doesn't like you as much as you may hope. I hope you do move on though. There's plenty of other girls to like and that need loving. Girls that wont ignore you.
Good luck.
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