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30-35,
*nnonymouse
writes:Basically I Saw this boy at this convention I been through 3 days I kind of no him But I never spoke to him.He was watching me 3 days blah blah its really long yeah I had 3witnesses watching him and they said Yeah he does preety much Like me,I emailed him this...:But This guy I like is best friends with this boy that used to like me so yeah its hard:if your wondering who's Kevin thats his best mateThis is what I saidMe:Hi,Look,Your most wondering why i am emailing you again.But all i can say is WHY was u keep looking at me at the convention and then all a sudden you don't want to talk about it or nothing.I get it your friends must of told you something about me.I no Richard kind of, so if he was talking about me to you I don't care anymore.If you listen to your friends go ahead but there not the ones that are gonna be with your girl.I'm not saying that Your so gonna go out with me.I am just saying that I been hearing things from you and Kevin which is kind of bugging me,if you have or whoever in your group have something to say or want to but cant.Just tell me and not discuss it through your little groups about it.Dont think im stupid because I can find out through people About all this.I'm not having ago at you.But i just don't understand why you haven't emailed me and you come online and not talk to me.If you don't reply its your choice but I thought your be a good person that will actually tell me but if you don't then I guess i find it out through people or I will leave it. Best for meSorry if i emailed you again.But I just don't understand whats going On that's all.if you don't email me in about 5 days or so then I know your not worth it.You can go tell all your friends I've wrote to you because end of the day I am trying get to know you but you don't want to then fair enough.All i want from you is to know why you kept looking at me and now not talking to me.Is there something wrong? If yes please say.P.S listen to your friends they are the ones making choices for you:)Bye.This Is what He said:Hmmm, this is interesting. I'll be straight to the point. I do not know who you are, I have seen you in my circuit, so at most I would have glanced at you because I've recognised you from another assembly. The rest is all in your imagination, I have never spoken about you with any of my friends and I do not know what Kevin has said to you, but it has nothing to do with me.I will be pursuing spiritual goals for many years before I decide to enter a relationship with someone, and when I do it will not be with someone who gets emotional and lets their imagination run wild, all over a breif glance or two.I am not judging you because I don't know anything about youand I have not even been told anything about you from someone else, but from what I have gathered from your message, you are very immature. I am happy to be friends with anyone who puts Jehovah first, but its seems like you haven't learn't much from him.I am not trying to be mean, all that I have said is the truth. I don't even know how old you are but it seems you are far too young to be worrying about relationships, there are much more important thing you should be concerned with. Just keep praying for wisdom and maturity, do all you can for Jehovah and you will be very happy one day, whether you are in a relationship with someone or not.I apologise if I have hurt your feelings but you should take what I have said very seriously.All the best, Lloyd.Does this guy like me or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2009): I'm sorry, but he doesn't like you. That email seems very straight forward to me and he is just telling you how it is. You were reading too much into his glances and I think emailing him what you did was a mistake. All you can do is try and put it behind you, and when you find a guy that you're interested in, try to get to know him instead of asking your friends and his friends what's going on... your friends were WAY off!
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (12 September 2009):
I'm not trying to be rude or hurt your feelings...but how could you possibly even consider what he responded back to you as him potentially "liking" you? Sorry sweets, but no, I don't think he likes you :(
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