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writes:Hey I have a big problem..whenever I go clubbing and partying I always get numbers from women. On average I get about 3-5 numbers per night but whenever I call them they usually seem to be more than ready to not talk to me. What's going on here and what should I do to avoid this?
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (12 September 2009):
 You go round pestering drunk girls for their phone numbers and you wonder why when they are sober they don't want to talk?3-5 girls per night, you sure know how to make a girl feel special don't you?What you are doing is the same as stupid boys in chat rooms who say "Hi A/S/L?" to every girl in a chat room.Try meeting people when they are sober, and don't go from girl to girl hoping to get a phone number.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (12 September 2009):
 Just giving you a phone number in a club is no real indication of interest. In many cases they could be intoxicated, or just doing the "polite" thing. Unless you plan to have sex the same night you meet her in a club, take the assumption that it is likely that many of the women you get contact info from in clubs will not pan out.
Furthermore, the fact that you get that many numbers might indicate why these women flake on you. You talk to a girl, get her number, and later that same night, she sees you talking to another girl and getting her number too. You come across as a player, and if she is into being with a player, it is likely she wants it that night, and nothing else. If you are a good lover, she might want to see you a few more times.
My guess is that you are coming off as a player-wannabe. Going out to get lots of phone numbers, but not going out to get sex. No woman wants to be with a player-wannabe.
-Frank Kermit
http://www.franktalks.com
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reader, kaifu  +, writes (12 September 2009):
Don't pick up girls at clubs... they were probably just drunk when you asked them and don't even know who you are after, and regret giving you it.
Find more socially friendly places to meet girls.
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