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writes:This is really starting to become upsetting to me.I'm almost 19. Ive dated two people. neither for more then a month, but yeah, it's really starting to upset me that I can't find someone to actually be with. I'm not ugly (people always tell me i'm pretty. it's even gone as far as people telling me i look similar to elisha cuthbert.)I'm a very nice girl, and i have a huge heart that i'm dying to share with somone. My ex's say i'm a very good girlfriend. I am a bit chubby, and i do have pink hair, but not in like a hard girl way. its long cute curly hair that just happens to be pink. and i dress like the average 19 year old. But all I can ever find is guys that want to hook up. And I really don't understand it. like i'm not "hot" like, I am i bigger girl... and i don't give off the "here to fuck around" vibe. I just REALLY don't understand what i'm doing wrong. When ever I'm at parties, most guys just ignore me, or arent flirty at all. and anyone i do find, wants to fuck. Recently i've found myself trying to replace the empty spot with sex. I put myself out there, and have barely had any interest put out there for me. I just don't know what to do about it. any idea?
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (12 September 2009):
 Your young into college and your age is a crazy time in life you wont meet many guys very mature and on your level yet.If your really into a relationship a serious one i suggest looking toward some older guys say about fve years older. If you feel your chubby why dont you try loosing weight not to shown shallow but the visual thing is big part of the deal for guys they cant help it, i kno oyu shouldnt judge a present by the size of the box but thats how it goes, i suggest getting involved with a gym and guess what thats a great way to meet some guys.
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