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female
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anonymous
writes:Hi,i don't really like going clubbing but i do socialize alot in different ways i go to house parties and like meet new people quite often but clubbing just isn't my scene.because i don't like clubbing does this mean i am boring?
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reader, real1on  +, writes (2 April 2009):
no it doesnt mean ur boring, i dont go clubbing, i feel its nuttin there 4 me if u wanta meet some1 meet them at the store or like u say a house party, i feel u
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): Wow, you sound like me!
I have never drank or anything, and i'm not one for going out... i'd rather sit in and have a dvd night with the girls. It depends on who you are, how boring would it be if everyone was the same? I'm sure it's not a problem with your friends or your family, so why worry about it? Just be who you want to be and have fun in the process =]
xox
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (2 April 2009):
 I didnt either and still don't. It was a little difficult to get myself out there but I managed. It's a personality thing. You will probably get along better with people a good bit older than you right now. But like Fionna said, it will become less of an issue as you get older.
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (2 April 2009):
 In many respects this is a fairly short-lived problem. Because making the assumption that in your mid-twenties or so you all have serious boyfriends and working towards marriage then nights out in a nightclub gradually become less of a priority. No long-term relationship can be based on going to nightclubs.
As far as socialising with female friends as already said go to the latest comedy at the cinema together, a meal out. Perhaps sometimes you go to the nightclub for variety. Perhaps variety is the key for you so you don't think you are doing too much of the same. Or perhaps a trip to the theme park with a few friends one weekend?
Perhaps the gym or aerobics class is a good way to meet up with a friend, plus it doesn't involve the drinkning.
I guess in many respects nightclubs are a novelty and it can also be about pulling the lads.
Night school courses (for a hobby not your job) are a change of scene and a way of meeting people.
Fiona.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni want to thank you all for your responses i feel so much better now!
thank you all!
great advice :)
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reader, passionatelynumb +, writes (2 April 2009):
 No, not at all. It just means you have a mind of your own. Independent thinking can be very attractive. Don't ever worry about doing something just because everyone else does.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (2 April 2009):
 Clubbing isnt everyones cup of tea. Some people prefer a nice pint, some prefer a good book or movie.
Whatever floats your boat as long as you enjoy yourself
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reader, sugar_sugar +, writes (2 April 2009):
 No it doesn't mean you're boring. Everyone has different interests and just because you don't share what may seem a common interest amongst others your age doesn't make you boring.House parties can be just as fun, and MUCH cheaper than clubbing.
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