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writes:HI this is a bit of a long one but I really could do with some kind of clarification here or advice.I went on a date with this guy back in January. We hit it off really well and he said he wanted to see how things go. The next time I heard from him he told me that he had been on a few dates with this other girl and that he had decided to see how things go with her, but that he wanted to stay friends. So of course I was a bit disappointed but thought well he wants to be friends no problem.Scince then we have seen each ohter several times. He has kept in touch with me via email and texts also. He split up with his GF a few months ago and said to me he would like to see how things go casually and see what happens.Well I have seen him once scince then and that was two months ago, he keeps emailing me really flirty texts but whenever I try to arrange things with him he always cancels last minute. Communications always seem to go in fits and starts i.e sometimes he can contacts me non stop for weeks and then it all of a sudden stops and I here nothing then just when I think oh well he obvioulsy isn't interested he contacts me again and it starts all over again.Now I have given up any thought of anything happening between as his communication is so erratic I never know where I stand. But as nothing has happend between us I would still like to stay friends as when we see each other we do get on really well. However his communication again has all of a sudden stoped and I wonder if he will get in touch again or not. I know he is a Policeman and he works all hours but I just dont know hwat he is playing at wondered if anyone could shed some light on this please as i feel like im going mad
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi thank I thought that but I am friends with him on facebook and no sign of any girlfriend he is also still in the dating site I met him on. I am not dating him I just dont get him when he is the one who is doing all the suggesting then he is apprently too busy to come and see me but yet he still re starts the contact when I havent bithered for a while I think i am going to write him an email explaining all this as I truely dont know when ill get to see him
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reader, claireleatherdale +, writes (9 September 2008):
 hunni i'm sorry 2 say this but i think he's got a girlfriend because i have a friend like that i have known him 4 22years (i met him when i was 4) and we dated a bit and he did to me what this guy is doing to u, he knows that if he txt's u once in a blue moon that u'll still want him when things get bad with his girlfriend but u've gotta put a stop 2 it hunni tell him face 2 face when u next see him that he's destroyed any chance of a relationship with u but u still want 2 b friends and if he cant accept that then hunni he's not worth ur time u deserve better than him and remember that take care xx
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