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writes:Im 17 years of age and sexually active. I'm the type of person that worries over everything; and i mean obsesssively. I've looked and researched into ways of making sure i'm careful as i have a very successful life which isn't ready for a pregnancy.I am aware that pre-come can contain hundreds if not thousands of sperm, and i hope today i have not made a fatal flaw.I was in the middle of playing with my girlfriend ;), and got a very small amount of this fluid on my index finger when moving my 'tackle' into a more comfortable position under my jeans. I realised this a few minutes later and ran upstairs to wash my hands, i washed 3 times to make sure i removed it properly and no situations would arrive later (using soap warm water and towels to dry my hands). Approx 25+ minutes later, after reading a few pages of my book and eating my meal with her, i then touched the front of her vagina ( i did not go inside just the basically the lips ) and now worried that i have every chance of getting her pregnant. She has assured me that as i washed severly, and the fact it was a while after; (pre come doesnt live very long i was told) she has no chance of pregnancy, due to the fact i didn't go inside her aswell. Although i'd like a second opinion. Thank you very much
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): Can you say OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE DISORDER?
I mean, keep tabs on things, watching your step sexually is fine.
But what you are doing is borderline nuts. In fact you'd do well to see a shrink to figure out why you are so obsessed with this.
You can't plan life out to the detail. It always finds a way to fuck things up.
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (6 October 2008):
 Your girlfriend is right - there's practically no chance she could get pregnant through something like that.
Sperm is fairly resiliant - it has to be if it wants to have any chance of fertilizing anything - but it's not THAT resiliant. Once it's outside the body, it doesn't last very long at all.
You don't have anything to worry about. Good on you for wanting to be careeful.
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reader, anon_e_mouse +, writes (6 October 2008):
 The chances of her being pregnant as a result of what you describe here are ZERO. It's refreshing to here youngsters being careful... You don't need to wash your hands 3 times though :)
Sperm die very quickly. I have heard urban myths about a bloke having a bath and then a girl getting pregnant using the same bath water. This is an urban MYTH.
You'll be fine. Just make sure when you have full blown sex you use a condom and that's the most effective way of not getting pregnant.
You have nothing to worry about here :)
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