A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Friends,Me and my English girlfriend decided to get married in Jan 09. Our love started 4 years back and thats why we decided to get married after living together. I came to India in Jan 08 because of expiry of visa. Being in India, I was renovating the house and looking after my ill parents whilst waiting for marriage visa. In July she suddenly decided not to get married because of time apart. I understand that, but the way she treated me was brutal saying she found an Indian man who is 8 years younger than her and she slept with him. I'ts unbelievable because we were so lovely until then. She was completely diffrent from the lady I knew. Now I only have another month to go, she wants to get married with me in Jan 09 saying all happened was nothing, she only filled the gap holding his hands and it is their culture. I am following my heart with the love for her and decided to get married. She is coming up with lot promises now. I love her more than anything, but somewhere in my heart that scar still there. And I am trying to forget those horrible comments of her.I need advice from all of you who reads this. What shall I do....please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, petina1  +, writes (29 November 2008):
 Dont rush into marriage. Is she on the rebound from this other man and knows you were there for her anyway. You and her need to do some talking if you still want to go ahead. Marriage is supposed to be for life not just for the moment so it is the most important decision you are going to make. Unset the date to wed, you can always book another date, sort the problems out first. good luck. hope this helps.
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