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writes:My gf and i have been together for nearly nine months. We love eachother very much, however, because of her previous relationships (this is my first), it has taken her along time to be intimate with me, and she knows this. I've respected her wishes by doing this and she and her mom think im crazy and have balls of steel to withstand it. So i do get lots of hugs, but we haven't yet kissed, and she told me the other day she really wants to make out, she just doesnt know how to initiate it, and im afraid that if she's expecting me to go in first then when i do she might pull away and give me a telling off lol...so what's the right way to do so and under the right circumstances...? Reply to this Question
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reader, petina1  +, writes (29 November 2008):
 Just spend some time cuddling and kissing without going any further. I'd still wait for her to take the lead as that sounds like her wishes. Maybe she won't be able to resist you if the setting is right, low lights, nice fire, relaxing atmosphere. In the meantime send flowers,buy chocolates, woo her. Us girls like that y ou know, other ways to show you care. little love notes. hope this helps.
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reader, RonMexico  +, writes (29 November 2008):
 When you're alone with her and it starts to feel really awkward between the two of you, that's when it's the right time. lol.But in all seriousness there are subliminal ways to know the time is right without outright asking. During that awkward moment, look at her eyes, then her lips, see if she notices and looks at your lips too. Then touch her hair, if she pulls away from you touching her hair or in general from that advance, then no harm. You didn't try to kiss her, but you gained a lot of info. If you can touch her hair then move in for a light kiss and now you have begun.Good luck.Regards,Ron Mexico.
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