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writes:I am 15 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for over 10 months. we haven't been having sex long but I think I'm pregnant even though we used a condom but it broke. I truly do love my boyfriend with all that I have and I really want to marry him and have a family with him but He is nearly 18.Which means if my guardian finds out she can have him locked up, and she would too.Since I love him so much and would like to continue living, I have decided to have a miscariage since I can not afford to have an abortion and my guardian cannot find out.I already know all the pain I will have to go through, and I already am feeling all the emotional pain so please don't try and talk me out of it :/I need to know what happens during the miscarriage and if I will still give birth if the child has only been in me for a few days.And if I do have to give birth what do I have to cut because I do not want my boyfriend to have to witness this.Please reply quick!
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reader, Oblivia  +, writes (29 November 2008):
 You really must see a doctor! If you try getting rid of it on your own you run a very high risk to never ever being able to have more children later in life. You also risk your own life. Many women have died when having had to get rid of fetus on their own.
If you can't talk to your guardian (does the fact you use the word guardian mean you don't live with your parents?), then go talk to a nurse at school or the like. You think now that protecting your boyfriend is the most important thing to do, but it is not! The most important thing here is your health and your life! If your boyfriend loves you he will agree with me on this and help and accompany you to see a doctor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2008): Oh dear god, you need to tell someone what you're about to do before you do some permanent damage. Silly girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2008): i'm 14 and my boyfriend is 17 and he dint get done for getting me pregnant. i'm 14 and i'm coping!!! do you want truth or a lie???
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basically there is something in you that is growing and you can't make yourself have a miscarriage!!! you go to the doctor and he will make you miscarry your baby. you will have to give birth to 'it' a few days later. if you are only a few weeks pregnant you can just put it into a bowl and flush 'it' down the toilet like it was never there!!!
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reader, babyminow +, writes (29 November 2008):
 does your boyfriend know what you are planning to do? thats very important
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reader, aspartame90 +, writes (29 November 2008):
I'm not an expert, but this seems astonishingly unsafe. I would highly, highly, HIGHLY recommend you talk to a trusted counselor before attempting something that, in all likelihood, could cause you serious bodily harm.
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