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writes:Hello, I'm nearly sixteen and I'm so scared of having sex, although I haven't got a boyfriend, the thought of it just scares me. If I got into the situation, I wouldn't have a clue what to do, it's not like I ever have boyfriends or stuff because my last relationship lasted about 7 months and was like 3 months ago.Any tips on what to do? Sounds so stupid but it's bothering me thinking about it!thanks xx Reply to this Question
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reader, BlondeBabe x +, writes (29 November 2008):
 There is no point in worrying about it, you obviously not ready to ave sex just yet.
The more you worry the worse you anxiesty is going to get.
So wait until you have found the perfect guy for you and when you feel ready because then you wont be worried and you wont feel scred, as in you heart you will know it is right.
Good Luck
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (29 November 2008):
just because you are turning 16 does not mean you have to have sex. i never had sex untill i was 19. there is no rule saying you must have sex once you turn 16.
you are obviously not ready for sex, so just don't do it. wait untill you are older.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (29 November 2008):
 As you get a bit older and wiser, you will meet someone one day where you won't even have to ask this question, it will come natural to you. You are very young to be worrying about this. Don't have sex with anyone just because you think everyone else is doing it, that gives people bad reputations. Get on with your education and your life and nature will eventually take it's course. If you are really pannicking out of control to the extent it is taking over your life then there are many books out there which can enlighten you. good luck ,hope this helps.
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