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One second I want to be with her and the other I don't!

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Question - (29 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I don't know what to do with my relationship. Sometimes i want to be with her and other times i just want to be single again.

We've been going out for more than a year now and although she does make me happy i'm getting bored.

One second i'll think i can't wait to spend my life with her and then the other i'll be like god i wish i was single because everything would be so much easier.

Another thing is she has an under active thighroyd meaning she's gunna start getting bigger soon. She doesn't really enjoy stuff that i like doing but will do it to make me happy such as going for walks or listening to music.

I don't want to end it with her right now because its coming up to christmas and i really don't know what to do.

I work saturdays and expects me to spend the whole sunday with her so i don't have time with my friends. She kind of gets on with my friends but she isn't very confident and won't really talk to others apart from me.

I really don't know what to do. It's almost like i have a split personality. i know that sounds stupid but its literally one second i'll want to be with her and the other i won't

I'm only 17 at the moment

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A female reader, star12 United States +, writes (3 December 2008):

You need to end the relationship because you don't really care for her. You probably are just with her because you get along with her. You sound like you are not ready for a real relationship at 17 and a little shallow.

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