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*pookylover92
writes:I have a boyfriend and we have been talking for a while now and I'm afraid to let my parents know because I'm not allowed to date until I'm 18 but I'm afraid that if I make him wait I will lose him. I really love him and want to keep seeing him he feels the same way but I don't know what to do about my parents. I know if they find out later that they will be upset that I did not tell them myself but if I tell them myself right now they will get really mad and make us split up, I need to know what to do so if anyone knows how to help me, I would appreciate it. Thanks,spookylover92
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reader, RonMexico  +, writes (29 November 2008):
 Always deny everything. Maybe you're parents aren't as liberal as most contemporary families in north america, but that doesn't mean you can't go about doing what you want. You just have to keep it hidden and keep yourself under control.But then again, you're under 15 and the guy probably just wants a blowjob and will dump you after anyway. It's sad, but always seems to be the case. Anyways, yah just don't tell them. You're under 15 it won't be serious anyway and it shouldn't. Go experiment with your relationship and keep a lid on it. That is life, it's a learning curve.Cheers,Ron Mexico
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reader, petina1  +, writes (29 November 2008):
 Let him know the situation at home. If he really likes you he will stick around. You say you talk to him all the time, cant you let his name slip in conversations with your parents that he is your friend (not boyfriend). Are you allowed male friends?. Slowly slowly you have to tread on this one. good luck.
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