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anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend have been knowing each other since we were 8 and 3 years ago he proposed...we are now 17 each and we have decided to have sex...we love each other very much..but the thing is that..for my first time, when he actually penetrated me...i had an horrible pain..perhaps it was quite my fault as i couldn't quite relax..and i don't know why..perhaps I'm just afraid of getting hurt again..and now every time he penetrates[well at least tries..]i contract...what can i do?:( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008): Yeah, being nervous DOES make it hurt more! Relaxation and arousal is the key, otherwise your body isn't prepared. Use lube because then there is less friction. Also the slower you go, the less it will hurt.
The more you have sex, the more your vagina will stretch over time, so the more practice you get, the more pleasurable it will become.
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