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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, Ive got a little bit of a strange situation but I would be grateful for any advice. Just over a month ago I was introduced to this guy through a mutual friend and we got on so well that night and I ended up staying up to 3am talking to him. The next day I was gutted though as I found out he had go back to Wales (which is a long distance, considering I live in the North East of England). Regardless, of that we swapped numbers etc and spoke every day possible moment. We quickly fell for each other and decided to make a go of it, it was love from the start. However two days ago he texted me saying he couldn't do it any more because it's too painful because of the distance, even though I promised to move down there with him next year as I want him to stay close to his daughter from a previous relationship. He said it's for the best but later text me to tell me he still loved me. I'm so heartbroken because I know he is the one and sense he knows it too but he is letting this obsticle get in between us. I just don't know what to do for the best.Thank you in advance!
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reader, Victoria Aubrey +, writes (22 November 2008):
 Oh my gosh! I know how you feel. Men are funny. Is he much older than you? The one thing that I have learned about men is that they just want to know they are trusted. So if he says that he loves you trust that is true. If he says it is too painfull to be seperated trust that as well. Do not push him or overwhelm him with communication. Men take longer to figure out problems than we do. They like to do it on their own. Give him his space and let him contact you. You are young and will meet many more potential mates. Just have fun and focus on your studies/work/family.
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