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writes:Do you think hes worth it? when he lets me down like all the time.Right well my ex bf, wants to get back with me and i told him i would get back with him if he showed me he can change because, he never used to spend time with me.But now he seems to spend even less time with me like hes always busy with his mates and too busy with footbll and suff. so we decided friday would be the day we can talk and stuff, because we both stay after school, and then we can walk together, and talk about 'us' well the first week he said oh sorry im getting a lift with my mate, so i was like oh right okay, the second week the thing i do wasnt on so i couldnt stay, and the third week my thing still wasnt on so i said, ill ome and do the thing you do so we can spend more time together, and he said okay, then the day bfore he said oh i Cant be botherd to stay after school now. i was like oh great well ok. so he just let me down, i was gonna tell him on he way home that we could try a relationship for a week and then decide if things have changed and if they have we can get back together properly, but no he cudnt be botherd to come, and also i was going to kiss him which is what he says he has wanted for so long but he missed out because he cudnt be botherd, and this annoys me because he says he loves me so much, then lets me down.Also we make plans to go out on days but then on the day he dosnt come out he stays in bed and dont mention wanting to come out and im like fine then!!!what should i do, give him another chance and see if he changes, ? or am i being to paranoyed? is he worth it when he seems to keep lettig me down?
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (23 November 2008):
 It''s not really a relationship if only one person is putting in all the effort.
I'd look around for someone else who treats you the way that you want to be treated.
Good Luck!
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