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writes:im a 18 year old guy and ive been on a first date with a 22 year old we got along fine but i rushed it too fast we ended up sharing a bed but we didnt have sex, alothe we dont mess around (foreplay).as you can imagine this killed the conversation for the next day it had been a week now and we casually talk a bit i suppose, well quite a lot i just over exajerate with it. he was online when i signed in and i really hadnt a clue what to say to him i still feel awkward about asking him out for another date. i know he likes me otherwise he wouldnt of let it get that far? or would he?he seems the nice type of guy, ive even asked a couple of my friends what they think of him and they think we do have a chance.what shall i say to him to try and get him to come on another date? i already asked for last saturday but he casually turned down as he "was busy" so he put it. well this is only the start of something i dont want to come across too desperate/naggy/clingy. Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionooooh .... ive asked again :l oops. il take your advice. its his ball now!
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reader, dearkelja  + ♥, writes (23 November 2008):
 You've asked him once and he was busy. Let him take the ball now. He knows you are interested. If you ask again he may think you're too pushy.
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (22 November 2008):
 Hi,
First dates are always awkward and usually never turn out the way we intended i think you just bide your time here he will come round just don't rush it you already have shared a bed with him and he has'nt said he does'nt like you so maybe like you he is kinda thinking he does'nt want to seem all eager too!
You can ask him to go for a drink nothing to complicated just a few drinks and have a good chat with him get to know him a little better and him you when you are more at ease in one another's company dating will come next he may also be a bit overwhelmed at your encounter in bed!
Give it time and try and just be friends first before jumping into bed again and maybe you will find after a while everything else will just fall into place good luck.
Ginalolabridga.
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reader, superbunny +, writes (22 November 2008):
 A good way to find out would be just text him saying "Let me know when you're free for a drink" or whatever.. If you don't hear within like a week, then he's probably not because every decent person would text with a date or an apology for not being free (hence, he cares about you!).
Just an idea - hope it works out! :) xx
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