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Grandad of 71 hitting on my girlfriend of 19!!!

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Question - (22 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have a real problem.....

My grandpa (father's Father) had been acting so stupidly around my girlfriend that I started becoming very agitated. He would always tell me to calm down and that he just really admired her. Then he began bragging to me about how if I didn't buck up she would want a real man and that he was going to show her a good time. He has always acted like a idiot around my girl friends since I was 15 and it sucks cause since my ma and dad moved away I have to see him all the time. But just last week I caught him kissing my girlfriend. She is only 19 and he is 71!!!!!!!!

He told me she wanted it and she was so embarrassed and said nothing. I know he made moves though cause he spoke about it. The worst part is..... it turned me on. Now I've been suggesting we go around to see him and then going off by myself to the shops in the hope I might catch them again..... And I have come back to see her all dishevelled and him asleep. It's so wrong but I like it!!!! what is going on????

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A female reader, Mushgirl United Kingdom +, writes (22 November 2008):

Mushgirl agony auntWhy not go the whole hog and have a threesome? Everyone wins.

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (22 November 2008):

oh dear!

i can kind of understand why maybe she kissed him, i personally wouldn't find a much older man attractive. but i have heard about younger guys having fantasies of older men. but your grandfather is really bad to dis-respect you by coming on to your girlfriend.

as for you liking the idea i think you need to maybe not take her over to your grandads place, as the reality of her and him would be hurtful for you and could ruin your relationship with both of them.

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