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anonymous
writes:hes really into sex while i would rather hang out and do stuff even though sex feels amazing i would do it a few times a week but he wants it every morning i asked if he could masterbate instead of sex but he said it doesnt cut it and i find when we have sex to much i get really sore... at the begining of our sexual relationship we used to everyday once or twice and i used to get so tired and sore but now i asked him to tone it down a bit and he agreed but now his sex drive is coming back what can i do!!!
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reader, katatonik  +, writes (23 November 2008):
 Let me say first that I've been here, but the other way around (I want sex more often than my guy does). The way around it turned out to be compromise, and I think that would help you two as well.
It sounds like the two of you need to have another talk and sort this out. Try getting him to see things from your point of view, and this is my suggestion on how to do it. After you two have sex and he finishes, ask him to have sex with you again immediately afterwards. Most guys, at this point, would object, because the penis gets super-sensitive (if not outright sore) immediately after sex. Explain that this is how too much sex makes YOU feel, and that the two of you have different thresholds for how much is too much.
Sex done properly shouldn't be hurting you every time, either, so another compromise would involve having sex with him when he wants on the condition that he includes enough foreplay to get you good and turned on (read: naturally lubricated down there) first. Hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008): My goodness, he's taking to much vitamins. Just kidding. Seriously, can you switch back and forth from an oral sex moment every other day and then regular every other day? Just a minor suggestion....
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