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How do I tell if it meant anything?

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Question - (22 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

I was at a party yesterday and met this guy. I known who he was but not know him to talk to but my friends use to be really good mates with him. We got talking and then I sat on his knee and then we went outside and started kissing. We went into town afterwards and were close all night like hugging and kissing, we went home shortly and he asked me to come to his but I couldn't because I had to be up early. Everyone found out about it and I'm a bit embarrassed today because I was really drunk but he wasn't at all.

I don't know whether I like him or I only did it because I was drunk or I just wanted to be with someone because the guy I like in school has a girlfriend, even though we are perfect for each other and he likes me too. I spoke to him online today but he seemed a bit quiet. I don't know whether he likes me or he just did it for a quickie or whether to ask him and his mates out with me and my mates next time? But thinking about last night I think I'm starting to like him, we are complete opposites though, he's someone i'd never go for even though he is good looking, and we had a lot more things in common than I thought. I just don't know what to do!!!

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A female reader, Ginalolabridga United Kingdom + , writes (22 November 2008):

Ginalolabridga agony auntHi,

Just be careful do not get drunk when around guys it is never a good look!

Think you like this boy that is unattached and he i think likes you too so why not just stick with him as the other boy has a g/f and you do not want to come between them you would not like this done to you so do not do it to others.

I think if you keep a clear head stay sober and have a chat with him you can usually tell when a boy likes you but i think you would come accross a far prettier girl without the booze good luck!

Ginalolabridga

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A female reader, superbunny United Kingdom +, writes (22 November 2008):

superbunny agony auntI think you should meet up with him without any alcohol involved for starters! :p

Well, if you think that you're replacing the guy you like with him, then maybe you are? It sounds here like you're trying to convince yourself that you liked the guy you kissed.

You are going to have to do some leg work & work out properly if he likes you I'm afraid.

xx

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