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What do I do if my ex blackmails me so I can't date anyone?!

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Question - (2 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 November 2008)
A male Canada age 30-35, *asteaway writes:

Hello, I am in stuff I don't want to be in.

My ex girlfriend keeps pulling that 'if you loved me you would kissed me or hug me or agree with me.' I did love this girl but she is using it against me, and I have some friends who know about us, and I could get into some serious shit if I say I don't agree.

What do I say to her? I want to make it so its convincing, but at the same time it would shut her down from ever using it against me. I can't live like this!

Also, what do I do if my ex blackmails me so I can't date anyone?...

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A male reader, yum yum Switzerland +, writes (2 November 2008):

yum yum agony auntThe big question is how is she going to blackmail you?? I don't get it?? anyway whatever your girl freind blackmails you with is just wrong on so many levels, she is possessive and not trustable. In my opinion you should terminate the relationship an find a new girl or at least tell her that you are entiteled to your opinion and if she blackmails you that you will brake up. Good luck!

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (2 November 2008):

What are you on about?

You have a rubbish girlfriend so split up with her.

Tell her you are sick of her behaviour and don't want to be with her any more.

Why are you so ashamed about being with her and people finding out?

Good Luck!! xx

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