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male
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anonymous
writes:Hi, I am currentley dating a girl that I met from a dating website. She onley lives 10 minutes away too.It's been 3 weeks now and everything is going ok but she always seems to be busy. She will arrange to meet me and then right at the last minute she will ring me and say I can't make it wich is fair enough but it's happend about 7 or 8 times now whithin 3 weeks, fair enough she has a child, I understand that but I believe she is still seeing her child's dad. Is something more than she says with him going on. Like the 1st night I met her we had to get a taxi to hers so she could get some more money. I waited outside with the taxi and her ex let her in her own home and when I said why is he there she said because he don't like being at his parents that much because he doesn't get on with them which thought was weird. It also feels like she prefers to chat on msn than actually meet. She said we can't meet last night because she has to do some ironing for her market stall tomorrow which I thought was fair enough but she was on msn chatting to god knows who till 10pm so I told her I thought you were doing the ironing and she says yes I am going to soon. She could have seen me for the time she was on msn. She also tries to avoid me going to her place all the time. At first she used to say I couldn't because I haven't met her child yet, but now that I have she can't use that exscuse any more, we got on great. When we went out on a night out, her ex kept ringing her too. Something's a bit fishy here or is it just me? It just don't add up!Well tell me what you think??? and some advice of how I can catch her out if anything is going on that shouldn't be thanks a lot???
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reader, sappygirl  +, writes (3 November 2008):
 Go ahead and take it, but i advise you to set up some boundries and not be a doormat to her. she will take advantage of you and use you.
She knows you won't leave her that is why she is treating you like this.
If you stand up for yourself, i guarantee you ,..this will earn her respect for you and she will treat you better.
best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for your advice and i think it is best to take it no matter how much i dont want to. i will do thankyou all so much.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (2 November 2008):
Dump her. The first 3 weeks should be bliss.
If she ask why? Tell her it takes two people to be in a relationship and right now if feels like you're the only one in it. Go with your instinct...it is usually correct
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