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36-40,
*ubblygirl
writes:I dont understand why I can be pushed aside like this!I havent been able to sleep lately because I am unsure why talking to someone is so hard to do. I understand people are busy, including myself, but this guy talks/flirts with me and appears to ignore me for a week or two despite friendly texts in the past while and messages online to him this week. He is known to be somewhat of a player, but that doesnt mean he should ignore me. With being busy and the fact that I have no idea why he is so rude, it drives me crazy! He is super sensitive though, and I'm afraid that if I ask why he's been distant, he might take it the wrong way and fire back at me.How do I find out the reason for his distant behaviour so that I can get some sleep?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2008): He's "mentally unbalanced"? No surprise that comes out of the mouth of a female reader. But Emilyanswers is right that you shouldn't lose sleep over it.
Bubblygirl, what gives you the impression that he's ignoring you? It might be that he really is just busy. It sounds to me like you guys just met recently, so don't be surprised if he doesn't open up immediately - guys generally aren't big on talking. If it's still bothering you, next time you see him, say hi and in a playful tone, ask why he's ignoring you when you've just met. He might not realize he's doing it since guys generally go off to find stuff to do instead of talking all day like you womenfolk, lol.
Or it could be that he really is a player. You're still in school, aren't you? That's what I'd bet on.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (2 November 2008):
So he is hyper sensitive and you have to walk on egg shells, yet he gets to treat you any way he wants?
This is how you get sleep.
You accept that this guy is mentally unbalanced and how he acts has nothing to do with you or logic or normal thought processes.
If he wants to mess you about then he can but you don;t have to stand for it.
If you let yourself lose sleep over some guy who flirted with you a few times then how will you cope with a real relationship? Get some backbone and self respect.
Good Luck!! xx
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