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30-35,
*ove_is_all_youu_need
writes:Please help me out, i feel so down!Everything goes wrong for me and my family, and i emphasise the word 'Everything'. We never get any luck, things go wrong all the time!!! It's becoming unbearable.And i'm going through yet another situation where i've been rejected by someone i really love, it's happened to me quite a few times throughout my life! I told him drunkenly outside a party, he hugged me and kissed me on the cheek if i remember correctly! I saw it as a positive response, but then when i got home i wrote an email to him saying that i really meant it when i said "i loved him" ...and after all the encouragement from my friend, convincing me he feels the same way - he rejected me (Gently) but still i feel so unhappy! I've been through enough over the past few years; family health problems, depression, bullying (when i was at school) and a rather devastating situation which involved a teacher who i was very fond of. Life in general is so depressing!I don't know what to do, i'm seeing this guy (for the first time) tomorrow. I feel so embarrassed/stupid and i'm really nervous too, infact the thought of talking to him is making me tremble so much! I might have to rely on alcohol tomorrow because without that i'll be in such a state. Me and him have agreed to be friends, we value our friendship so much. But how can i possibly act my normal friendly self, knowing that he knows i love him! It's going to be incredibly awkward.But on top of this, other problems are on my mind!!Will life get any better??? i feel so miserable right now! And i'd appreciate any advice with this guy i've mentioned, i've lost all my appetite because of him and my parents are becoming suspicous!Please help xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008): You have got through all the other problems so well done you.It's natural to feel nervous when you are going out with a guy you like. But he might be nervous too, guys often are. Concentrate on putting him at his ease and you will probably forget about yourself.Don't go on about your problems to him, tell him about the good things in your life. That will make you focus on them too, and you will feel better.
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