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female
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30-35,
*ate_addicted
writes:I have been seeing this new guy for a few months now, and we are doing really good so far. I have recently found myself in an awkward position though and I need some help. I am best friends with my ex-boyfriend (don't worry he has a girl now) and we hang out together often. I have a necklace of my exes - one of his favorites and my boyfriend saw it one day at my house and commented on how much he liked it. Well, I gave it to him. My ex then suddenly remembered that I still had it and he wants it back. I dont want my boyfriend to know I gave him my exes favorite necklace- he will be pissed off I am sure. What can I do to get out of this? I know that this probably didnt come out right but I promise you, my boyfriend is a jealous and possessive type of guy. And since my ex and my boyfriend are about to be roommates (sucks I know), what should I say or do to get it back without being suspicious?
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reader, scythe  +, writes (18 November 2008):
 The best advice has been given to you already. Tell the truth to both of them. You will be embarrassed and they might both be annoyed at you, but it will pass.
On the other hand, you could just nick the necklace and toss it into the nearest river etc. Problem solved :P (hehehe im only joking!)
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reader, hate_addicted +, writes (17 November 2008):
hate_addicted is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am not much of a liar, I avoid it and try to be honest because I hate being caught up. I am one to try to impress someone, and I knew he liked it so I went against one of my own rules and...was dishonest. Thank you for your reply though.
He is not too bad of a guy, his possessiveness is one of his only flaws, but we are one of the same and I put up with it.
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