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writes:Hi Aunts/UnclesI went out with this guy for a month in September, things were amazing, I really liked him and lost my virginity to him. It was my first proper relationship. We broke up just after we turned one month, he dumped me by text and still after a month I really want him back. I made several attempts to get him to reconsider and people told me he was cheating on me and all this other stuff which I can't believe because he was with me all the time and I don't believe he would. Now I want to text him to say "I miss you" or something along those lines to see if maybe he feels the same or deep down might want to give it another go. Is this a wise idea and if yes then what should I put in the text?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): Sorry, your first sexual experience lasted only 1 month.There is no point to text him, that just a fantazy that he might react to it the way you want him to.Give it a little more time with you future boyfriend to see what he is and how he feels about you. You don't want to have 1 month relationships all the time. Guy are created differently than us girls, especially at early age when hormones are going wild, all they really want is sex.I hope you had fun also, but really if you want a relationship, try to see first what his intentions are and if you really have anything in commom, not only physical attraction. Hope, it helped
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (17 November 2008):
 Save your money your time and your heart and do not do it, this will only end up in tears and you being more hurt then before, he could not even break up with you to your face what a coward. Dont waste your time find someone who will love you
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reader, Minxy68 +, writes (17 November 2008):
Dont do it honey! If he missed you he would be with you now. Move on and get someone who is worth it. I can understand that youre feeling that you want him back, but youve tried and it hasnt worked. Forget him, theres many more good men out there.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (17 November 2008):
 Why waste the energy on this jerk who used you for sex? I'm so sorry, sweetness, but this guy didn't really care about you if he was sleazing around behind your back. I'm not saying that you're not completely worthy of his love, he just wasn't giving it to you- he was too focused on getting some booty.
Don't text him. Don't give him the time of day. The dude is a creep.
Be strong, sweetness. There are tons of guys who aren't scum bags and one of them will be lucky to have you. This fella was, but he blew it. He is too scummy for you. Drop him like a hot potato.
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reader, jackie69 +, writes (17 November 2008):
 Dont bother. He is just like my ex, a prat! and you should forget him and move on. They just string you along if you tell them you miss them.They love you to say it but remember love and I'm not being nasty, don't trust any men because all they are after is one thing.
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