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He calls me a promise breaker!

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Question - (6 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 December 2008)
A female Australia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have been with my boyfriend since last 2 years. I had true feelings for him, I oftenly used to tell him upto which extent I loved him. Though he never said to me verbally that he loves me. Whenever I happened to ask, he always replied: "My feelings are silent". We were invoved in foreplay and oral sex. During foreplay he never kissed my body, my cheeks, my forehead. Just he used to kiss my lips for while, and touched my breasts. Within 5 minutes he used to ask me having intercourse. But I never did becoz I was virgin and he was not giving me the time to get ready for it.Then he just wanted me to love his chest, and to give him oral. Then he used to leave me as such without talking to me. I promised him that I will love him till death and after I get prepared mentally I will allow him for intercourse. We had planned to go for a weekend in this December and to enjoy sex completely as I promised him.

I didn't know about his sex history. He knows that I am a virgin. Recently I came to know that he is having sex with some other girl twice a week for a long time. And in past he also had done sex with 2-3 partners. He admitted all these to me.

I love him, I would not have bothered about his past, but his present relation bothers me. I have cancelled the plan to meet him for sex.

Now he calls me and says he is not committed to that girl and says me that "you are not sincere, not good at heart, you did promise to me that you will love me and wll have sex with me, why are you thinking about my other relationships, just think about sharing yourself with me."

He calls me a "Promise breaker". He says your love was not true. You can't sacrifice for me.

HELP PLEASE

I am in a dilemma what should I do. When he calls me a promise breaker I feel guilty.

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A female reader, lonelydark United States +, writes (8 December 2008):

Don't give your virginity to him. He is a jerk and believe me they don't appreciate it afterwards. Don't do the same mistake I did so please keep strong and do not allow him back. You will regret it later

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