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writes: Me and my girlfriend went to a party together. Well turns out my ex was there and I think she was a bit drunk too. We just were catching up a littie when she tried to kiss me. I did what I could to stop her but then my girlfriend walked in the room. She got so upset I had take her somewhere we could have more privacy. Now she thinks I'm cheating her, she also been to two timed before. What do I do?
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (6 December 2008):
I think you just need to be patient and stick by her. Right now she thinks you have cheated, therefore probably assumes you arent really interested in her and that you dont truly care. But if you stick by her, show her how commited ot her you are, and that you arent going anywhere, in time she will see the truth.
You need to give her as much reassurance as she needs, and it will probably be alot. Dont yell at her or say nasty things if she brings up the topic of you 'cheating'. Let her say what she has to say, let her get her feelings out and then calmly reassure her you did not do that and remind her of your feelings for her.
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reader, tux  +, writes (6 December 2008):
 Tip 1: Do not take girlfriend to party where your ex is..
Tip2: If you fail at tip 2... Never, ever talk to your ex-gf alone.
But as far as your situation goes..it's in the past.. You are in between a rock and a hard place. All you can do is talk to her about it and hope she trusts you with it. I know it can be hard when she has been through that before. But you need to talk to her about it and hope she trusts you with it..
Next time, follow tip 1 and 2... and I really thought that kind of stuff only happened in movies.. ;)
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