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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I was dating this guy for about three months, and in those three months he cheated on me (nothing major) and treated me badly, but I didn't give up on him because I knew he could be a good person if it weren't for the people he hung out with. But then he got sent to a mental hospital for about three months, an while he was there I dated two other people to keep my mind off him, but it didn't work so I dumped them. Well he met some girl while he was away and they were apparently pretty serious. But they broke up and when he got back he didn't want to see me at first. I didn't know why. I saw him in person and we discussed things and he told me he was supposed to get together with some other girl and that's why he didn't want to date me, but that things didn't work out with that girl. So he asked me out and we were back together for a few days. Then he texted me and broke up with me, and I think it's because of that girl. I got mad, and told him we couldn't be friends because it would hurt too much. Since then he hasn't tried to contact me at all, but I really miss him and want to at least be friends. But since I'm the one who said we shouldn't talk then I don't know what to say to him. Help?
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reader, xanthic +, writes (7 February 2011):
 Hold on, so.. you said you didn't want to be friends, and now you're wondering why he hasn't tried to contact you? For the love of god let him go. How good could he be if he chose someone else over you, then decided to date you again only because it didn't work out with her? Now that she may or may not have come back into the picture, he wants to break up. Face it, he's not a good person. He's treating you like you're his Plan B.
Also, over the course of just three months he cheated on you (which IS something major) and treated you badly, all by his own choice. Someone's friends can only be influential to a point, he acted that way towards you because he obviously has his own issues to deal with. How do you think it'd be long term with someone like him?
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