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I'm such a good boyfriend, so why is she all quiet with me?

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Question - (6 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 February 2011)
A male United States age 26-29, *ohnnykidds writes:

My girlfriend has been giving me short answers and not really talking to me. This morning we were doing just fine, she went and got drunk last night and I didn't really think to care much of it. I deleted my Face Books and stuff, and she's kind of just like not wanting to talk to me. My parents went out of town for a week leaving this morning and returning next Sunday.

I don't know if I should be worried, or nervous or what. I don't think I've done anything wrong, I'm such a nice, good boyfriend. I don't understand! help!

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (7 February 2011):

The Realist agony auntFrom what you have said you haven't done anything wrong. Good for you for not being a slave to facebook to, I am actually clapping right now.

I don't mean to sound so negative but I'm thinking that she did things at that party and may not want to be with you anymore. Or she did something that she is ashamed of. I would give her some time, like a few days and then if she won't talk to you I would say that you should end it.

Could she be angry that you're not having a party at your house or having her over and doing things you're not suppossed to. Either way it just doesn't sound good and I would question if you still want to be with her or not.

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A female reader, BeccaLeigh United States +, writes (7 February 2011):

If she's being distant, she either is going through a hard time and needs you more than ever, or else she isn't really into your relationship as much as you are. Just wait it out, and let her know you're there for her, and if she's not into the relationship, then it would be best to go your separate ways, which is the answer nobody wants to hear, but is usually the best one. So keep hanging on, and good luck(:

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