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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've met this girl in the last few weeks and we've really hit it off. She broke up from a years relationship about a month and a half ago, and she isn't totally over it. She agreed to meet me on Friday night, and we basically just cuddled for two hours then we kissed. I asked her if she wanted to hang out with me next weekend and she said she wasn't looking for anything serious just now. And there was this other guy she met earlier who's a total ned, and I convinced her to forget him, cause her ex treated her like shit, I know this guy will too, and she deserves so much better. I don't know what to do, she said she'll let me know when she changes her mind. I quite like her :) but do you guys think it's a lost cause? Or should I just be patient?
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reader, cupidscurse +, writes (7 February 2011):
As a nineteen year old girl myself I can tell you that I honestly don't think this girl knows what she wants. If I were you I wouldn't get too attached too quickly as she might want to keep her options open for a while and date other guys, a normal reaction to a breakup in any serious relationship. If you genuinely think that this girl is worth pursuing, then I would have a little patience and just wait for her to come to you. Sooner or later this girl will come to her senses and realise that the other guy is a waste of time. Having said that, I wouldn't wait TOO long for her; if she thinks that you're a poor little puppy dog that follows her around all the time then she might think she is able to take advantage of your patience. Whatever you choose to do, ensure that you make it known to her that you're not gonna wait around forever.
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