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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for three years. At first our sex life was great, but now, I never seem to want it. He has put on a bit of weight recently and I find it off putting. I know this shouldn't matter when you love someone, but I can't help it. He complains about it, and I encourage healthy eating, etc. But I really think this is the reason I no longer want sex, but how can you really tell someone that?We are moving in together soon and everything else between us is great. But I just feel like I do not fancy him anymore and I don't know what I can do to change it. I feel really shallow, but I feel that if I put in effort to maintain a healthy body and ok appearance, why can't he? There is just no chemistry at the moment.
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