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writes:Two guys like me. I like both of them. One of them asked me to be their girlfriend and I don't know what to do. I've made a pros and cons list. I can't find anything bad about going out with either of these guys besides that if I choose one the other will be heart broken. I tried flipping a coin and I just couldn't let it be to chance. Guy 1 is sweet and adorable and smart and treats me like a princess. Guy 2 is romantic and caring and is very respectable. They don't know about eachother and I'm just stuck. I like them both a lot!!!!! What do I do?! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): I read all posts, but much agree with abella. Don't rush up, wait until you find a true life partner. You have plenty of years in front of you to choose a true life partner.
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reader, sunandstars  +, writes (19 February 2011):
If you like two people, you can't toss a coin to choose between them, because if you get into a relationship with one, you're feelings for the other may come across, you can never have two loves in your life, it's too dangerous. Just get too know them better and let your heart do the talking- give it time. I hope this helps x
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reader, Ferra  +, writes (19 February 2011):
 Bernard has a good point.If you have not accepted to go out with one of them,just keep being ther friends.Know for sure what you want in either of them.
The worst thing to do is to lie to your ownself.
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reader, Abella +, writes (19 February 2011):
 when you find you like two guys and you can't differentiate between the two it often signals that they are nice genuine guys who it would best to keep as good friends. Who are there for you, and who you can talk thinks over with.
But neither are 'the one'. Because when you meet 'the one' you'll get butterflies fluttering in your tummy at just the thought of seeing him
And an hour with him will seem like just a few minutes. And his face will light up and your face will light up when you see each other.
And when you do meet a guy who is 'the one' remember to always look at his actions more than his words.
And remember than in this lifetime you will meet many who have all the potential attributes of 'the one'. The trick is to choose a really good guy as 'the one' who's willing to really be faithful to you, trat you like his Princess, and who feels equally good about you as you do of him.
Maybe this is not yet time to meet someone who is your 'the one', but that's OK, as you have years yet to make those decisions. And fortunately you already have good friends who are good guys. They will keep a good eye on you to see that you sre
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reader, Rose22  +, writes (19 February 2011):
 okay well in this situation you need to dig deep in your heart and find what guy your heart desires most.if one of them has asked you out already and you really love him then maybe you should go for him, as the other might not ask you out. hmm one treats you like a princess, and the other is a romantic sweetheart. well if it was me i would go for the one who seems the romantic, as you know a girl loves that type, hehe.
but do your best and see which one your heart leaps for!!!
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