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writes:I enjoy a healthy sex life with my boyfriend of 2 months.Recently we have been opening up about what we like, and he says he really likes the girl to take control.This is something I've never really done before. So how do I do it? I know this means being confident and taking the lead, which I'm fine with. But I would really like some examples of things I could do or say. Props like handcuffs etc are out of the question because he still lives with his parents haha. So what do you suggest? I'd love guys opinions especially :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): Taking control doesn't mean you have to become a dominatrix or aything. & it's not all about being confident...it's mostly about feeling comfortable. If you're comfortable with your guy, it's quite easy to do.
Next time you have sex with your boyfriend...be the one to initiate it! Take him to the bedroom...kiss him in his favourite places and you be the one that pushes him on to the bed. Climb on top of him and makeout with him or whatever you like. Just make sure you're the one that's in control.
YOU be the one to take his shirt off when YOU'RE ready...and you be the one to unzip his pants when you want to and so on and so forth. & once you get on top of him, tell him that you're the one in charge.
That's a start...kind of take it from there, be creative. You don't need any props. Taking control doesn't have to mean doing anything outrageous...just be in charge. It's like torturing him a little in the sense that you're going to be getting him excited but you're going to make him hold off until you say it's ok. Also, if you haven't already done girl-on-top that's probably something he's looking for.
Good luck, have fun & be creative! You'll get to like it!
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