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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I dated for quite a while and then we broke up. Before that we gave each other oral sex etc and really loved each other.In the few months that we were apart we saw other people etc. (I dated a VERY BAD kisser)We're back together again now, and have been for a little while. But I'm not feeling as confident with BJs as I used to. I feel like I'm doing it all wrong and being boring.Even making out with him... I feel like I'm doing it wrong, like I'm bad at it. He hasn't said anything along those lines but I'm worried that its not as great as it used to be.Every other aspect of the relationship is AMAZING and so much better. Probably because we got some perspective and realized what we had together.We really love each other on an intellectual, emotional, spiritual level. But will this drive a wedge in our physical love?What can I do about it?
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (19 February 2011):
 Before overanalyzing, why don't you check with him to see what he thinks of your kissing/blow job technique. you can be upfront and say you feel out of practice or aren't sure if he likes it like he used to, or is there a technique he prefers that you could do. It's better to know for sure that there is a problem, something easily worked on, rather than finding out you've created a wedge that doesn't exist outside of your head.
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