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writes:ok well ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and i would like to say its been great in the well bedroom but the thing is he wants to be able to have sex twice in one night and im not against the idea but i just know that whenever he finishes he kisses me and cuddles me and then falls to sleep. now i have asked him once after he came, if he thought he could do it again and he just looked and me and said give me three hours!! umm just like to add that he would have fallen asleep by then for sure. so the question is well how is it that guys can have sex twice? i know some can and i would like to know, it which circumstances they can??help,redrosexxx Reply to this Question
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reader, MissVee  +, writes (20 February 2011):
The problem seems to lay with him falling asleep. Therefore the obvious solution is to keep him awake. After you're finished, you could probably ask him to get you a drink or a snack (anything to get him out of the bed/off the sofa/ out of wherever else you happen to be), then follow him and chatter away until he's ready to go again. Who says you need to go back to the bedroom ;)
Hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): If you're game then it's up to him.
When I was 18 me and my g/f went away for a weekend, it was early on in the relationship and the first time we'd had without distractions. It wasn't twice in one night, it was more like a dozen times in eight hours. And a dozen more in the following 24 hours.
That was the only time in my life that was anything remotely like that, but it can happen.
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reader, kesson  +, writes (20 February 2011):
In men the refractory period ("recharge" if you will) can be anywhere from fifteen minutes to over a day. If he wants to improve his stamina, try staying well-hydrated and starting your activities earlier in the day.
With a little bit of "encouragement" from my GF I can usually get going for round 2 or 3 after about half an hour. I usually helps a lot to work out regularly and (for him) not making a habit of sleeping right after orgasm.
Hope that helps.
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