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writes:Hi i am 16 yers old my gf is 18yers, i go whith here in the same class but( i have a problem i am russian and she is chinese)on on sanday and saturday she is going to work every time and somtimes friday night. i dont have free time to spend with here after school i mean manday-friday because i am going to practice wresling,soccer and running and alote of homework. somtime i dont see here 2 to 3 weeks. i love here very much i dont want to separate. what do i need to do need a little plz! Reply to this Question
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reader, Dyma +, writes (19 February 2011):
Dyma is verified as being by the original poster of the questiontnx every one, maybe i will leave one sport and i will talk with here monday after school about that.tnx
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reader, sunandstars  +, writes (19 February 2011):
My gran has a saying, 'make time', meaning no matter how much you have on you always have time to do those important things. You simply need to find the time, no matter how small it is, to see her. You don't have to see her even, just call to have a chat or drop her a text. You don't need to be with someone all the time to make a relationship work, often a little distance is good, so it feels more special when you do see them. I hope this helps.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (19 February 2011):
 The only thing I can think of, is cutting down on sports. I mean, sports are great, but do you need to practice 3 of them ?? Drop your least favorite and you'll free some hours for your gf.
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reader, Lovely15 +, writes (19 February 2011):
I definitely think you should sit down with her to talk about this. If it bothers her as much it bothers you, stay with her.. work it out... find time to be together. If she doesn't care about your space and time apart than let her go. It will probably be very difficult but you need to love yourself first.. if you stay with her even though she shows you that she is indifferent to you and the situation, that is not you loving yourself and is very sad. Plus, who knows?.. maybe you letting go of her will make her realize what she lost. And maybe you will find someone better to love... you never know what life will throw your way
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