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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:It's been a month and a half since my break up with my girlfriend (ex) that was a 3 year relationship. the only time she contacted me once saying she missed me, a week after the break up after she asked me on a date and cancelled it because she felt if she went out with me we will go out but will break up later on, she did this two times until I gave up and stopped talking to her. We broke up because we fought too much and never understood each other, we loved each other and our company, we had some issues with friends but we could fix that, mostly the fighting was too much and painful, that she decided to break up.So valentines day came around (1 month and half since our break up). I broke down and texted her best friend to call me, her friend told me, she went on a group valentines date with some friends and that my ex and the guy pecked when he dropped her off, she also said she likes him but not "really him" and she does because she thinks she is lonely and not used to being single, they also been hanging out a lot and it really hurts. I messaged her saying that I knew she liked someone and wish she could tell me the truth and that I think about her. she responded saying, she isn't looking for a relationship and she doesn't like anyone and for me too stop assuming stuff, also said she also thinks of me and that I'm not alone. later she said "thinks someone's cute isn't a big deal and there is no one I know well to like their personality.Deep down I really want to be with her, I still love her, but I want to know if she does? Is it finally over, will she ever come back? has anyone ever had this problem, if so can you write me your experience and advice. please help, thanks.
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