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*illybabyx
writes:i met a lad at boxing a few months ago, and we've always had a bit of chemistry. recently last month he in boxed me, giving me his number, because he quit the gym. we've been texting ever since, he comes into my work at his break just to see me, he texts me all day, he tells me he likes me, blahblah. but his girlfriend lives with him? he said even when they were not together she lived there, because her family are close to his, and she had nowhere to live. he said they're not affectionate, its not a proper relationship, he likes me more then her and everything.last night we met and he was hugging me, and he text me later that night saying he wanted to kiss me, and to come out at the weekend.but i feel like im being played about, he said he hates feeling like hes ******* me about. It's just awkward because Z (his gf) lives with him and is invovled with his family.we have spoken quite sexual on text messages but that was only once or twice, he does bring it up, but i worry that he might be trying to use me. But he does text me right in the morning, and generally seems interested, Does he truly like me or is he just asking for a bootycall?Now he's finished his girlfriend, but says "he needs to get his head together and everything before he gets another girlfriend" which i can understand?but we met up with each other last night, and we kissed and talked...?i dont even know anymore :(
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reader, MissVee  +, writes (19 February 2011):
No self respecting woman would lend another woman her used tampon or her toothbrush. Seeing as a man is at least that intimate with us, why would you want to share him?
It sounds as though he does have some interest in you, but it seems to be ebbing more toward the lust than love side...
There are countless amazing men in this world who don't have their emotional baggage living with them AND tied to them by their families' friendships.
Keep him as a casual friend as you never know what life's twists and turns will bring about, but don't bet on him being The One.
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reader, Eilish +, writes (19 February 2011):
 Things like this usually turn out bad. It seems to me like your his second choice, and his girlfriend was his first & golden. Don't be a rebound, you are so much better than that.xxx
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (19 February 2011):
 tell him you agree with him (key word : agree) that things are complicated becuz of his (ex) gf situation. Ask him straight up if he wanna date you or if he needs time. Tell him ,in the case he needs time,u will respect it but u wont be seeing him in the meantime.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): More than likely a booty call. Why does he always text? He needs to call and talk to you. As for the girlfriend he lives with, they probably haven't even broken up. More than likely you are being played.
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