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writes:I like someone and I catch him staring at me a lot but I am not sure he likes me or not because whenever I catch him looking at me he turns away and doesn't talk to me. I don't know how to tell him that I love him. Please help me to know how would I find about his feeling and tell him mine. Reply to this Question
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reader, sha9991  +, writes (19 February 2011):
Hi,
We don't look at things we are not attracted to, so I would say he likes the way you look! :) The talking thing maybe he is very shy and even more so when he likes someone,and he isn't good at starting a conversation up,so you should approach him first maybe?
I would hold back on telling him you love him yet, you would want him to say first really,get passed the test off time,I am a great beliver in that,if it's ment to be it will.You can't force things,time will tell you either way if your ment to be! :)
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reader, MissVee  +, writes (19 February 2011):
There is only one way: Speak up. You cannot start a relationship with silence any more than you can have a fire without flames.
If you're REALLY that shy, simply ask a friend/colleague to start a conversation when you're nearby and join in. It's easy, fun and totally leads to great things. Or, try using Facebook's chat feature to start a conversation. This works just as well, as people tend to be more confident when they're hiding behind a computer.
One word of caution... blurting out "I love you" only works in romantic comedies (and even then, only in the poorly written ones!) and NEVER works in real life. In real life, such an approach is undertaken only by potential crazy cat ladies.
So, speak up. Smile at him when you see him staring at you, make your way over and trust that you have all the charm you need to make a good impression. If you get nervous or shy, just admit it. It sounds as though he's just shy as well! =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): People usually look at things they like (not that you are a thing).
But be careful, when you say you love him how much have you got to know him?
How about you smile at him, or maybe pluck up the courage to say hi? You may have a lot to gain from giving this a go, then if he is not in fact interested you have in no way embarrassed yourself by launching in with how you feel, but it is a step in the right direction.
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reader, askmeanything2 +, writes (19 February 2011):
 Hi you need to go up to him and ask him if he would like to have a drink with you,if he says yes, you know he is intereasted in you. but what ever you do ,do not just tell him you love him he will more than likely run a mile ,no bloke wants to hear that straight away give him time to get to know you .good luck.
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