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30-35,
*topMeFromFalling
writes:Lately i havent been able to make up mind about a guy. But there are two guys who i have had feelings for, for a couple years now. One of them just hates me now so i just said that God was showing me it wasnt meant to be. The other guy is still always on my mind.This past friday i went to my schools football game and he came (he switched schools) with his dad (the sports photographer for our school) and we hung out. I just wanted to makeout with him while he was there, we didnt though. All my friends thought we should have hooked up and all that too. But i chickened out because i actually want a relationship from him, which i am pretty sure he wouldnt give me. But i cannot get him out of my mind ,no-matter how hard i try. I dont want to mess up our friendship.Should i try and get a relationship from him or just stay friends? Reply to this Question
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reader, GLenN +, writes (28 September 2009):
 you have to ask your self what is more important to you. the freindship? or the relationship? its toughie but it has to be done. but just look at a few of the possible angles that could come true. you get together with him and things are just weird and you all break up and are never the same. OR you give up the chance to be with him to salvage your friendship. not all cases will some one lose the freind ship that they had before the realtionship. they may end up stronger and closer then they were before and or while you were dating him.
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