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*ani91621
writes:To make a VERY long story short, Me and ex were together for 2 years...so in love...moved in with each other...relationship went downhill, I had my own insecurities and I was clingy and jealous. He has his...needs video games, sports, friends, etc. He became distant and I gave him a choice-work on it or move on....he chose to move on. He ended it but yet he took it hard, I moved out and he was miserable. Crying, writing letters, telling me he wants me back. He said he just needs space and time to be able to work on his own issues as me as well. Well now he is not texting calling or anything! He says he needs his space to work on his life but yet he still loves me and wants to work on it...like hang out once in a while and "date" again. But how are we supposed to do that if he wants nothing to do with me? Should I just leave him alone completely for a while? Move on? What! He is so flip floppy...HELP!!!!
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reader, Candleman +, writes (26 September 2009):
 You admitted that you had clingy and jealous problems in this relationship. This is probably an indication of it. If he is going to honestly try and change, then you should as well.
Yes, back off for a while. It will be your first test.
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reader, isabella1987 +, writes (26 September 2009):
Well, I am 21 years old.I had same thing what happen to you now. Just couple month ago.Your boyfriend he just play the game.He just come and go.I don't trust man anymore.Cause he use to call me and texing every hours.And then he stopped. Then he texted me he love me again. I let him in again.He don't connect me for 2 weeks and he sent me text with him and his new girl. he said he'll marry her and I need to stop connect him. How hurt it that. he just play me fool. So, think about it. I don't want you happen like me. OK. Good luck
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