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How do I get my girlfriend to trust me? And how do I know if she loves me?

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Question - (2 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 September 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *mbear writes:

hello people.well im 15 years old.n heres my question how can u get ur gf 2 trust u...well i mess up on her n the firest 2 months i kiss another girl..it took me i say 2 months 2 tell her.but it was the time i statred realizing how much im n love with her.so i told her the truth.she clik on me.she would talk 2 me.i cry to her lots of times.i just couldnt lose her.after that a couple of day pass.n she called me n told me lots of bullshit i didnt got mad its what i desver.so i told her what do u want 2 do.she said she gion 2 kiss a nother guy.i said ok if thats what u want 2 do go ahead..days passed n she did..i got hurt i felt like shit.i cry even more i just told her so i guess this is good bye i just clik on her.4 hours pass she sents me tex messages, calls me but i ignor it. she called privted i anser.it was her she said that she regrets what she did i said me 2.sh said that she in love with me i said it. she gave me a 2nd chances i was so happy.but she said she doesnt trust me i said k i dont blame u. were n our 7th month together n she always asking me what am i doing. i ask her that to. i tell me slef does she really love me. heres my second question how do u know if your gf loves you.im so in love with here i told her i would change 4 her n i did, i should her love (not sex) were both virgins but i did told her i want her 2 be my 1st she jus bulshes n says me 2 but she not ready n i resapect that. sometimes i make promise n i do keep them, she does 2 but sometimes act mean 2 me. i told her lots of bs when she likes that she just says i sorry.its kool i tell her. but how do i get her 2 trust me n how do i know she loves me..please help..thank u

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A female reader, AlexCM United Kingdom +, writes (3 September 2009):

you shouldnt have kissed another girl. but you realise that, and so you can understand why she doesnt trust you.

the trust needs to be re built or this wont work.

hopefully time will re build that trust!

try talking to her again and tell her how you feel!

but if it doesnt work dont be too suprised hun.

good luck! x

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