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writes:So I've been talking to this guy for about seven months and I completely love him and he loves me, but I can't handle it anymore. I love him so much and I don't want to hurt him, but how do I tell him right now just us the right time. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): I agree with the others but I just want to emphasise the fact that you need to make sure he understand that you love him. ''Its not the right time'' can sound like a polite way of saying ''never''. Make him understand thats not the case and you really like him.
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (2 September 2009):
Be honest with him, thats all anyone can ask of you.
Tell him how it is, he hes genuine in his love for you then im sure hell understand, maybe time apart will make you both see how much you like each other.
Becareful in how you word it, sometimes when the timings wrong you push the ones you really need away, even if hes not your bf you should still try and remain friends, everyone needs the support and stability of a friendship when going through difficult times.
Best of luck
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reader, AgonyAuntBlondiee +, writes (2 September 2009):
 You have to tell him how you feel. Explain to him that you really like him but it can't work right now. You want to give it your best shot at love and right now you are not at a stage where you can commit to give it all you've got 100% and really make a try of things. Tell him you aren't leaving him but its really important that you are ready before you jump into this relationship and that you still want to be with him, you just wanna take your time.If he loves you he'll wait for you.Hope this helps :)AgonyAuntBlondiee x
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