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writes:Hi everyone, im just really confused about this guy i went out with a few times, just wanted some advice.So this guy ive known since highschool started talking to me on facebook. We talked for a few weeks and he asked me out for dinner. So i went and we had a great night. After that we talked for a while and all of a sudden he stopped talking to me. So i deleted his number and moved on, just fugured he was a jerk.So a month later he txts me saying "so what we r never talking again or what", so i replied and he was asking me what i was up to and we talked and he asked me what i was doing that night and i told him i was going out with my friends and he said txt me when u arent being gay so we can go out. So what do u think he wants now?
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (14 September 2009):
 I agree with the other two advice you got. Let him go, he isn't what you are looking for.
I would honestly just ignore him from now on.
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reader, Lola1 +, writes (14 September 2009):
 If we had a time-machine, I would recommend you follow Lexie88's example and not respond.
He was testing the waters. "Will she respond? Is this an avenue I can use for now, while I am bored and have nothing else going on?" And you responded. Acting "coy" or "elusive" is still a response... it's still an open door.
However, you did respond. Well, no worries. You can close that door by not responding again.
It's funny that he is calling you "gay". That is like calling you a lesbian because you don't want to date him. LMBO!
Enjoy a good laugh and continue along the path as though he'd never popped up.
And... expect others to pop back up. People from our past often do. Get your laugh and keep "moving on".
Good luck.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (14 September 2009):
 The way I see it, he was somewhat interested in you but then something 'better' came up so he forgot about you. Now that something has fallen through he's come back to try things with you. Do you like him? Do you want more from him? It's not a good start really. I'd hate for him to ask you out again and get your hopes up and then drop you again. If I was you I'd plain and simple ask him where he was for a whole month! He'll probably make an excuse but it's worth trying.I don't think you can put much hope on this one. If you were a priority to him to begin with he would have been all over you, not drop you like that and come back a month later. Recently I went out with someone and he never called me again. He messaged a month later asking me out again and I never responded. He didn't either and I'm glad I dodged a bullet.
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