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What do I make of his reply?

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Question - (14 September 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hello all,

Just a little advice please.

I work for a very large organisation, we all work around a 24/7 shift pattern. I noticed a guy at work 1 year ago, thought he was not bad looking. I then met someone on my team, started seeing him, split up after 8 months, didn't work out.

Whilst at work the other day I started chatting to this guy I met over a year ago. He seems quite serious (I thought), but he seemed to be be talking fine. My colleague that was with me did most the talking.

We started to talk about certain jobs requiring a lot of commitment. Whilst the conversation continued, I was intregiued with this guy! I purposely said that "oh I can do that job, as I have no commitments what so ever". This was so that he knew I was single.

He then replied back saying "yeah I'm single, I could do that too".

Not sure what to make of it. Any ideas?

Thank you,

x

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A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (2 October 2009):

GrimmReality agony auntWell good for you. Hope it works out and please keep us posted.

I guess I have to mark myself as totally wrong on this one. Gladly I will. GOOD LUCK!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2009):

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Hi guys,

Just a note to say thank you for replying and an update.

Apparently this guy did mention he was single because he was interested! A co-worker clarified and confirmed that. Apparently he's supposed to be approaching me at some point. Haven't been to work yet, so I shall wait and see when I get back!.

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A female reader, HereAreMyTwoCents United States +, writes (15 September 2009):

HereAreMyTwoCents agony auntThat's not enough to make anything out of it. But at least now you know he's single.

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A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (15 September 2009):

GrimmReality agony auntWell being that you were talking about work, I will agree with Echo here. The implication I am getting is that what this guy may have been thinking is that since both of you are single, that you could dedicate yourselves to the project.

Id bet that he thinks its just work related.

If you are seeking something else from this guy I would suggest coming up with a different approach.

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