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female
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18-21,
anonymous
writes:It seems like we're perfect together. Both of us have mellow personalities and neither of us have tempers so when something bad happens we end up laughing. We never fight, we never get tired of talking or things to talk about, we disagree but never argue, and we never get bored when we're together. He's been my best friend for a while, there's no awkwardness with us, and we tell each other everything, even the stuff nobody wants to talk about. We always end up playing cards, playing Halo3 (he ends up winning half the time), watching roseanne (we're corny), or just sitting and staring at each other and talking. But he's going to college now..it's a few hours away and we both seem to have problems separating. I end up tearing up and so does he. I think we're both clingy but we seem to be perfect together. Is it normal to fit perfectly into someone else's life? I hope it is...
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reader, person12345  +, writes (14 September 2009):
That's not clingy, that's love. It's not clingy unless it's a one-sided thing. You're lucky you've found someone so perfect for you. Don't worry about what's "normal" or not normal. I assure you, it is. I'd be more concerned if you two were talking about separating in such a big way and you WEREN'T both crying.
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reader, britt429 +, writes (14 September 2009):
 Not only normal...but in my opinion very fortunate! When a couple makes a perfect match as you have, it's something to build on!
A far as clinginess, it's okay if you both feel the same way...it's when ones smothers the other, that it becomes a problem!
You're both very young and to have met your soulmate at such an early time in your lives, is a bit unusual. You may still have some life to experience, so time away from each other could be a positive thing. I know it's hard to say goodbye to a loved one, even if it's just temporarily.
As I always say, honesty, trust and communication are the foundation for a healthy relationship!
Be strong! If this is meant to be...it will withstand the
separation!
Good Luck!
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