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Secretly going out with a waiter, my friend likes him

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Question - (14 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey,

i have been going out whith a waiter who works in a Restaurant we go to quiet alot but no one no's about it i went there at the weekend with my family and my best friend and her family and he was working but didnt serve us my best friend noticed him and she kept wispering to me how cute and nice looking he was and i didnt no what to say.she said that she thinks he liked her because he kept staring at her and walking by our table even though he didnt need to he wasnt serving anyone near us he just kept walking by my friend think he really likes her i dont no what to do because aur parents are thinking of going there again this weekend do u think he likes her ?

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A female reader, DrPsych United Kingdom +, writes (14 September 2009):

DrPsych agony auntI cannot say if your waiter-boyfriend fancies your mate, but if you met him through dinner service then I would be careful of this boy until you get to know him better. He maybe a player using his job to 'pick up'. I think you should be honest with your friend before you drag this out any further. It maybe exciting to have a secret but you should respect her feelings by just explaining you are dating him. You haven't done anything wrong so far as she wasn't his girlfriend and there was no cheating - it is just you got to the cute guy first!

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A female reader, busy04 United States +, writes (14 September 2009):

busy04 agony auntWhy don't you just be honest and tell your friend that you're with the guy. It's obvious that he was walking by the table because you were there & he couldn't talk to you, not because of your friend. She's thinking like that only because she took a liking to him. How hard can it be to just be honest with her sweetheart? Tell her before she makes a move on him...

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